sshd seems to ignore the DSCP field in packets sent by clients. I think it would be sensible if it copied the DSCP field to its response packets, though maybe it would make sense to be able to override this in the configuration, e.g. IPQoSResponse nodelay throughput (the default) IPQoSResponse copy throughput (copy from client packet for interactive sessions) …
How would sshd find out the TOS/DSCP of the incoming packets? On most platforms IP_TOS is write-only...